“Every morning, I ask God to make me a blessing to someone today.” says my friend, Dave. Over the ten years I have known him, I have seen ample evidence of God answering his prayer in the affirmative.
Make me a blessing. A simple prayer. A curious prayer. Even a bold, adventurous or risky prayer.
Blessing is defined as “the act or words of one who blesses” or “a thing conducive to happiness or welfare.” Another definition of blessing says it is “something good that one feels grateful” or “lucky to have.” We offer someone our blessing when we give our permission, support or approval for something. Whichever of these definitions you apply, blessing is a gift of grace and generosity in word or deed.
Counting my blessings from God is a spiritual discipline I have long practiced, because a habit of gratitude makes sense to me on every level. I am more likely to see God’s hand at work in my life when I am actively watching for it. Gratitude is a choice to open my eyes and expect to see God’s presence.
Yet the idea of actively looking for ways to BE a blessing, a practice inspired by my friend, is a relatively new intention for me.
My Bible tells me God wants to give us blessings. In fact, God delights in giving good gifts to his children. When I count my blessings, I am often overwhelmed with gratitude by the abundance I discover. Counting my blessings is good for me and brings my heart closer to God. Yet, I sometimes get frustrated by the use of the word blessing among people of faith, as if God is handing out party favors to his favorites. I get squirmy with the implication we somehow earned a prize by signing up for the right club. I cringe a bit every time I see the hashtag #blessed.
By contrast, I am energized and challenged by the idea that I am blessed in order to BE a blessing, the Kingdom of God in action. God’s pouring in requires, invites, and equips my pouring out. As we begin to watch for opportunities to be part of God’s blessing brigade, we find the possibilities are endless.
“God, make me a blessing to someone today.” I dare you to pray this prayer and watch what happens.
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